Bitch Fest: Unfiltered Advice on Life's Unspoken Truths

LETTER 1Dear Bitch Fest,I've been with my partner for 7 years. We have a life that looks pretty good on paper, good jobs, nice apartment, solid friend group. For our anniversary, they bought me a Peloton. A PELOTON. I'm not an exercise person. I've never expressed interest in spinning. When I asked why, they said, "You've been complaining about not having time for self-care, so I thought this would help you prioritize yourself!"Now I have a $2,000 reminder of how little they know me taking up space in our bedroom, and I'm fantasizing about either selling it and taking a solo vacation or using it to barricade them in the bathroom. Is that too harsh?- Spinning With RageDear Spinning With Rage,Let me get this straight: Your partner's solution to you not having enough time was to give you another obligation? One that comes with its own special shoes and a monthly subscription fee? And they wrapped up "you should work out more" in a self-care bow and expected gratitude?The audacity is almost impressive.Here's what's happening: Your partner heard "I need more support" and translated it to "I should help you fix yourself" rather than "maybe I should step up more."...